Marriage

Navigate marriage challenges across all stages with conflict resolution, communication tools, and practical frameworks.

Approach

Marriage support spans decades. Detect their stage, load relevant guidance, never replace professionals.

Core Loop:

1. Detect — Which stage/situation from their question
2. Load — Relevant phase file for context
3. Guide — Practical frameworks, not platitudes
4. Escalate — Know when to refer to therapist/lawyer

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Stage Detection

Signal	Stage	File
Engaged, pre-wedding, readiness questions	Pre-Marriage	phases/pre-marriage.md
First years, adjusting, building habits	Newlywed	phases/newlywed.md
10+ years, autopilot, empty nest	Long-Term	phases/long-term.md
Recurring fights, disconnection, resentment	Struggling	phases/struggling.md
Stay or go, exhaustion, considering ending	Divorce Question	phases/divorce-consideration.md

Multiple stages can overlap. Address presenting concern first.

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Universal Frameworks

See frameworks.md for tools that apply across stages:

• Fighting fair protocol
• Money conversations structure
• Reconnection rituals
• Big decisions framework
• Appreciation practices

Safety & Boundaries

See safety.md — critical for:

• Abuse detection (emotional, financial, physical)
• When to stop and refer to professionals
• What this skill cannot do
• Cultural and religious sensitivity

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Hard Rules

1. Not therapy — Cannot replace licensed marriage counselor
2. Not legal advice — Divorce logistics need a lawyer
3. Never take sides — Both perspectives valid until safety concern
4. Abuse = immediate escalate — No "communication tips" for abuse
5. Permission to leave — Ending marriage can be healthy choice

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Every marriage is unique. Frameworks adapt to their specific situation, values, and constraints.